Do you have any Holiday tips?
Absolutely!! Christmas is a wonderful time of year. We are celebrating the birth of our Lord and Savior. We are celebrating that we can have eternal life through Him. We are celebrating that we are forgiven for every sin in our past, present and future through our belief in Jesus as our Savior. We are celebrating a true miracle!!! My main Holiday tip is remembering the reason you are celebrating.
Other things you can do to stay fit during this season;
1. Focus on His love. He did not invent, shopping and over the top, rest in His peace.
2. Enjoy all you are doing.
3. Love those you are with. Do not be so focused on getting things done that you ignore the people in front of you. Always practice random acts of kindness.
4. Enjoy the holiday foods. Eat the items that you only get this time of year. Don’t over indulge. Simply savor the entire flavor. Practice healthy eating too.
5. Move more. Most likely you will be consuming extra calories so plan on moving more. Take the stairs, take a lap around the mall, and walk around for five minutes on the hour, park in the farthest away parking space! Intentionally decide to move more.
6. Spend within your means. Over spending is not of God. You are to only give what you have. Do you think anyone you are buying for wants you to go in debt for their present?
7. Build in margin to your day. Stress accompanies this time of year for many reasons. One reason is we take on too much. Less is more. Enjoy your moments.
These are a few things you can do to keep yourself focused on the reason for the season.
Luke 2:11 “For there is born to you this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord.”
I have holiday stress. It is not that I have been going to parties or making cookies. I just have not been focused on starting my new life style. I want to, but not enough to do it. Should I just wait until January first and get the New Years incentive?
Since you are feeling holiday stress, try to let it go. The birth of Jesus is the reason for the season. Happiness does not come from having things perfect. Do what you can comfortably. Focus on His love and spread that this Christmas.
You have a desire to have a healthier lifestyle now, do not put it off. I believe the ultimate in a healthy lifestyle includes holiness, healthiness and happiness. If you are struggling with the exercise and diet angle, start with His peace. One of the ways I do this is by reading His word daily. In addition to holiness you can work on being happier. Intentionally do at least one fun thing every day. This can be as simple as letting yourself day dream. Happiness comes from within; it is largely determined by your attitude. You can decide to enjoy what you have. Focusing on your holiness and happiness will help you be healthier. To increase your fitness level and improve your diet, start simple. Take the steps you will do. Baby steps are OK. The main goal is to have a holy, healthy, happy life. Do a little something every day, and eventually you will be living a new lifestyle. Do not put off till tomorrow what you can do today.
1 Timothy 4:8 “For bodily exercise profits a little, but godliness is profitable for all things, having promise of the life that now is and of that which is to come.”
At the Rock Prairie Women’s retreat we all chose a fitness goal for our body. I am having surgery next week. I really can’t come up with an exercise goal. I will get started on something after my surgery. There is really not much I can do now, right?
You are 100% correct after surgery you cannot immediately start an exercise program. Most of the time your Doctor will have you wait six to eight weeks. Your physical limitations need to be determined by you consulting with your Doc.
There are however many things you can do to help your body in health and in recovery aside from exercise.
1. Getting enough good quality sleep is a great starting point.
2. Resting in His peace, regardless of your circumstances is also an essential element of good health. (“Casting all your care upon Him, because He cares about you.” 1 Peter 5:7)
3. Enjoying fun recreation, even in your hospital bed you can laugh, listen to music, or read make sure you do one fun thing for yourself every day.
4. Eating a well balanced, nutritious, natural, calorie appropriate diet is a fantastic way to aid in your recovery.
5. Practicing proper hygiene even if you are tired and don’t care, will help you avoid possible infection and give you a daily lift. (I consider this step not only bathing and brushing teeth but getting dressed in something that makes you feel good and continually brushing off old behaviors that ensnare you)
6. Putting on faith, every moment remember He loves you and has plans for you. (Jeremiah 29:11) Exercise helps the body, but taking care of your physical body is more than just getting regular exercise. I think the most important of all these ways to help your body especially in times of surgery is to trust the Lord with all your heart and mind. Casting your care for He cares for you and remembering how much He loves you! My prayers are with you for a successful surgery and a healthful recovery.
Jeremiah 29:11 “For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.”
I work in an environment that promotes gossip and complaining. How do I avoid entering in to it?
Great awareness! Many of us work around gossipers and complainers. It is easy and very tempting to join in. Recognize when you need to get up and away from the downturned conversation. If you cannot leave try to just say something nice. I believe saying good things or keeping your mouth shut is the only way to avoid getting sucked in. Try saying that you are not comfortable ripping the person apart. Try bringing up solution orientated conversations instead of complaining. People like to be a part of a solution. People instinctively know gossiping and complaining is wrong and will appreciate you helping them get out of the negative spiral. Hold your tongue when you have a juicy “tid bit” to add. You will feel better about yourself and empowered to do it again next time the gossip and complaining starts.
Mathew 15:11 ”Not what goes into the mouth defiles a man: but what comes out of the mouth, this defiles a man.”
I have already broken my New Year’s resolutions. I want to get back on track and stay there. Do you have any suggestions?
Keep on Keeping on! You said resolutions; many of us take on to many changes at once and get over whelmed. We can do great for a day or two but then old patterns creep in and there we are. Prioritize the things in your life you need to change. An example if you have been short with your children and your husband, over eating and distant from God, pick the priority. This one is easy; God, you and your husband, then your children. (If we are out of balance with God we tend to self destruct.) When you act according to His priorities you will naturally start taking better care of yourself, this is not easy to do, and we live in a compromising society. Remember as you chose your priorities:
Mathew 6:33 “Seek ye first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you”
Exodus 20:3 “You shall have no other Gods before Me.”
Mark 10:8 “and the two shall become one flesh; so they are no longer two, but one flesh.”
1 Corinthians 6:19 “Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own?”
The Bible is a great place to figure out how to live. When you alien your thinking up with His word your actions will follow! None of us can get this perfect. Jesus was and is the only one perfect. The rest of us have to continually accept His forgiveness and keep on keeping on! The more you alien yourself with His ways and act accordingly the easier it will get!
James 4:7” Therefore submit to God, Resist the devil and he will flee from you.”
My 50 day challenge is less than great. I have made some good choices but my bad out numbers the good. Exercise is important; I was doing better a couple weeks ago. I have so much I need to do, and keep myself from doing it.
Do what you can. Try to at least get in sleep and cast your cares. Eat well and drink water, these things do not take extra time and will help you treat your body as His temple.
Hebrews 12:1 “Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us.”
I get so upset at this woman at work because she is always cutting me and my other co-workers down. I get so upset that it consumes me and I don’t feel like staying on my program. Do you have a suggestion?
Absolutely. Forgiveness, forgiveness, forgiveness. In the Bible it says, how many times must I forgive? 7×70. Forgiveness is a godly way of life. I personally do not have the heart naturally to forgive, I ask that from the Lord. When someone offends me I ask God, “Please Lord, help me forgive that person.” I ask this over and over until I truly feel it in my heart. I also pray for that person that they may know Gods peace and that He too, may forgive them. Sometimes I choke on the words because I don’t want to pray for the person that hurt me. If, I do it anyway, and practice that forgiveness, I find myself developing true compassion for that person and thus being able to look them in the eye and generally care for them. When I can replace my anger with love through the help of the Lord, I am in a healthier, better place.
Lamentations 3:32 NKJ “Though He causes grief, yet He will show compassion according to the multitude of His mercies.”
This woman in my office is driving me crazy! She is constantly complaining and only does a fraction of the work she is supposed to. I get so angry around her. How can I feel peace around her?
Many people in our lives will not meet our expectations. We do not even meet our own expectations. Ever since Eve took the bite of the apple man has fallen short. I find the first step to feeling peace around other people is to have peace with who I am. This peace comes from knowing who I am in Christ. I am someone who messes up. Through Jesus I am forgiven. Through Him I am given the Holy Spirit who is my helper and strength. Even with Jesus and the Holy Spirit I still mess up, yet I continually get back up and try again because I am forgiven and loved.
Jesus said, “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another.”John 13:34
Just as I am not perfect I try to remember the people around me are not either. I pray for them and continually practice forgiving them. It is tempting to gossip about the people that offend us. When I do this it hurts me. Try to hold your tongue and practice love, kindness compassion and forgiveness. If she complains directly to you, simply tell her you are a solution oriented person and complaining serves no purpose. Ask her if she can produce solutions? This may inspire her and it may not. Let your joy come from within and don’t lose it by the behavior of others.
I just met a great guy! He is perfect for me! He is a Christian, athletic, smart, handsome, and I feel so excited about him. I never feel this way! It is like being a school girl again! He told me that he is married. He said,” they have been separated for two years and will be getting a divorce in two more years.” He said,” she is a non-believer and emotionally abusive to him”. I don’t date married men but he feels like he should be my exception. What should I do?
Stay with what you know to be true. You don’t date married men. In today’s culture, it seems acceptable to do so. The ramifications for adultery have not changed. You can be forgiven but if you go into a relationship knowing it is wrong and “go for it” anyway planning on His forgiveness it will backfire on you. God designed marriage to help us. He said, “It is not good that man shall be alone.” (Genesis 2:18)
Genesis 2:24: “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.”
Mark 10:9: “Therefore what God has joined together let no man separate.”
Mathew5:32 “But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery: and who ever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.”
1 Corinthians 6:9 “Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards nor revilers nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God.
1 Corinthians 6:19 “Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own?”(sharing your flesh in adultery violates your body)
Even though God deigned marriage to help us it is not easy. Many of us wish we would have picked different people once we open our package. The truth is there is not a perfect person out there. I have watched my sisters and my good friends stay married in very hard times and their life is better for it. I have left my marriages for adulterous relationships and there was nothing but pain. There was initial who –Ha! , then significant pain. I know I have been forgiven but my family has suffered tremendously and so have I. I recommend you suggest this person find a way through Jesus to fix his marriage. Pray that his marriage will be saved, and walk away. God will reward your behavior in His timing He will bring you the Man He has for you. Marriage is a gift from God; don’t let yourself be a part of destroying it.
There is a woman that I work with that uses her sexuality and lies to get a head. Recently I was the target of her lies and the boss promoted her over me. It does not seem fair! I am so angry I don’t want to go to work. I need the job. How do I deal with this situation?
Pray. When someone is offending you pray for them. I think this is very difficult at first. We are called as Christians to love our enemies. I do not have that in me without the help of the Lord. So, I pray. When I pray for those whom offend me God seems to change my heart for them and lowers my anxiety.
Today many people rely on their sexuality and deception to get ahead. Hollywood seems to promote this type of behavior and our culture is bombarded with mass media promoting this very thing. . There is not much we can do to change other people. We can change the way we react to others. We can chose to love people and genuinely care for them even if we do not agree with them or have been hurt by them. I am not saying we have to put them on our best friends list and buddy up. I am saying we need to practice constant forgiveness towards them and intentionally love them as they are. I use empathy. I am convinced that people act in a manner they feel protected in. We all have short comings and many people act prideful, hoity and deceptive because they are hurting.
I would talk with her directly and explain to her how you feel. In 1Timothy we are given a directive to take our issues directly to that person that offends us. If we do not get resolve that way we are called to involve and other person. I suggest your boss. I would clarify the truth without accusing her of lying. When you speak with her use” I feel “statements without blaming. Put your best foot forward doing your best work. If you feel the anger swelling up, let it go, pray, and stay in constant forgiveness. God is the rewarded of those who diligently seeks Him.
All of Psalms 37 works here.
Psalm 37:28” For the Lord loves justice and does not forsake His saints.”
Psalm 37:34 “Wait on the Lord, and keep His way, and He shall exalt you to inherit the land.”
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